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To live a fulfilling life…talk about ‘death’ more often

I last wrote in September 2020 when I lost my father.

Less than two year from that day, my mother passed away last year in May 2022.  I was in Goa when she got hospitalized – by the time I came back in the evening, she was already on ventilator. We couldn’t speak to her for her last 5 days when she was in hospital.  Her last words to me (on phone) was ‘I am fine’ when she was going to hospital.  No good byes…no last piece of advice…nothing on what should I do…nothing.
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No breaking news please..

On my way back from a vacation in Gangtok last year, my son kept asking the same question ‘will the plane crash’ ? I tried to allay his fears to best of my abilities – that thousands of plane fly each day, its the safest mode of transportation, planes are strong, pilots are very good – but he was not convinced. ‘I saw a plane crash on TV’ continue reading No breaking news please..

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A little bit of ‘thank you’ in my life…

Few days ago in the gym, I met an extremely upset man, an Indian but having lived abroad for many years. The reason – he felt that one of the gym instructors did not say thank you to him – when he allowed him to use the hair dryer before him. The guy went on and on for close to 10 minutes, and many of us around him found it quite amusing. continue reading A little bit of ‘thank you’ in my life…